Try this: Think of a place in your life where you feel stuck.

If some part of you is asking a version of “What’s wrong with me?” like, Why can’t I get my shit together? or Why am I not a more (loving, smart, confident, focused, ambitious, insert your word of choice) person?

Try asking yourself this instead:

“What do I most want?
What am I longing for?”
and then, “How can I create that?”

Trust me. These are much better questions.